I am an attractive sexy blond, blue eyed lady, 40s, with a good body who loves sex with her man but also desires a woman. I had some experiences with women in the past so as I recently separated, I am living life how I want and that includes satisfying my own desires. I have a gorgeous boyfriend who really knows how to satisfy me but why not have it all? I am going to talk about finding women, our experiences, sex toys, lingerie, videos - anything I find interesting as a bisexual. Enjoy.

Thursday 11 December 2008

Interesting Sites

I found some interesting sites:

London Lesbian Scene

Porn Movies for Women

and
Anna Span Makes Porn Movies for Women. She is a British film maker who films in a way that is attractive to women, rather than focussing on the "banging" style of sex which men prefer. Her actors are all British so if you prefer British accents to American drawls, check out her films.

Anna Span Porn Movies Made for Women - DVDs available from Amazon.co.uk

Still Hoping to Meet a Woman

I am not having much success in meeting a woman. I am registered on some online dating sites but I wonder whether people are genuine. I received messages from two women who seemed really keen for a sexual encounter. They emailed me with sexy photos of themselves and asked for some of me. I do not have any and would not email them to a stranger anyway. As we do not live far apart, I suggested meeting but they replied that they wanted to see more photos and talk dirty through emails. I wrote back that I thought they were a man who just had some photos of a woman to send. I never heard any more so must presume I was right.

I did meet one woman whilst away in another country but we did not click. I found the conversation really stilted.

I also met a woman locally for a drink. She was friendly enough but not someone I would meet regularly as a woman friend. She was also bisexual and found her one relationship with a woman to be more natural than with a man. We kissed goodbye on the cheek but neither has contacted the other since. There did not seem much point.

Thursday 4 September 2008

Find a Horny Match Online.

I came across a delicious site called Horny Matches.com and it is just that - a way to meet someone when you're horny, woman, man, couple - whatever you want. Some people want to chat, email and others want the real thing. Profiles can be very explicit as can the photos.

I joined a week ago and found some lovely looking ladies within an hour's drive of me. Tonight I decided to upgrade my membership to Gold with a special deal on 3+1 months making it extremely reasonable.

Some of the women on my hot list are online now so we've been mailing.

You can join the site free as a standard member, search for other members and send them a wink. If you want to email or give them your private email address, you will have to upgrade but it's worth it.

You should see some of the ladies I've found. There are apparently over 179,000 members online worldwide at this moment. Sorry, I've got to go. Wish me luck.

PS If you are at all prudish, avoid this site.

Monday 1 September 2008

Meet Sexy Singles Online

As you know, I am looking to meet someone via online sites as I don't know where to go in my area to find someone in the flesh as it were.

I came across AdultFriendFinder and boy does it make my pussy wet just reading through the profiles. There are some lovely women within a short drive from my home and we are already emailing. Members can be explicit as they want in their profiles and add five naughty photos if they choose. It is free to join and there are 20 million members worldwide.











Of course, as it is an sexy singles online site, it is not limited to woman seeks woman. Men are included or other categories are woman seeks couple or couple seeks woman. You can arrange to meet or just enjoy cyber sex and erotic emails - whatever turns you on. You must see the free members video cams!

Thursday 28 August 2008

Hot Lesbians Video

Here is a short, 2 minutes edited video of two hot lesbians with lovely long blond hair enjoying each other:

http://www.youporn.com/watch/152008/lesbianas-calientes/




Enjoy.

Wednesday 27 August 2008

Swopping Photos but I Want to Meet You Babe

I have been swopping erotic photos with one sexy lady who says she finds me very attractive so I suggested we meet. She has not responded to that suggestion but rather keeps sending me more intimate photos and asking for some from me. I don't have any but said we could take photos of each other when we meet.

So why doesn't she want to meet? We live about 90 minutes drive apart so something could be arranged. Is she for real? Perhaps she doesn't live there or perhaps she is really a man sending photos of his woman? I don't understand it.

I have upgraded to paid membership of two bisexual dating sites and responded to several women. They do not seem to be logging in or reading their emails.

I am an attractive woman and very horny so where is the woman who wants to play? Or at least just meet for a drink and a chat to see if something develops?

Sunday 24 August 2008

Sharing Erotic Photos by Email

This morning I received some photos from one of the women showing her sitting on a chair without knickers. She likes to be free in the warm weather.

She wanted more erotic photos of me so I took some with my digital camera. It wasn't easy finding the right angle but I took some sexy ones:
- a pair of black lacy nix with one finger feeling inside
- a good cleavage with a front-opening Tshirt and feeling towards one nipple, in three stages.
I am sure she will like them. I think they were sexy but in an innocent, teasing way. She said my previous photos had made her horny so she played with herself while looking at them. Good to know someone is dreaming of me.

My boyfriend will be here soon so I am looking forward to some hard action with him tonight.

Beautiful 30 Minutes Lesbian Video

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Video of Two Girls Kissing

Here is a short but sexy video of two girls french kissing and rubbing. It gets me going!

Emails from Two Women

I have had emails from two women today.

The first is the "unhappily married with lousy sex" who I mentioned earlier. She says her husband is a good man and they have a young child so she does not want to consider divorce but she has been thinking a long time about a woman's touch. He does not like going down on her so she does not return the favour.

They say men think about sex every 6 seconds so how can a man not enjoy licking pussy?

Like me, she watches clips and movies online and longs for a woman to sit on her face. I know my pussy tastes sweet. Her husband does not kiss her other than the odd peck and she lo-o-o-ngs to kiss a woman. I think just meeting for a drink, maybe satisfying her curiousity about kissing will help her enormously. She is not my type physically but who knows?

The other woman is married and looking for hot sensual contact. She's come to the right place. We are swopping photos but I've told her I am much sexier in the flesh. No one has ever taken candid photos of me and I stiffen up waiting for them to take a posed shot. A photographer friend I used to know took beautiful studio photos of me naked when I was pregnant and a couple more took clothed portraits but partially clothed or naked - none, except for the pregnant ones.

I am a keen photographer so am now fantasising about photographing women. Clothed or otherwise, I know I can take photos they will like and of course they can keep them. Maybe you'll start seeing photos taken by me on lesbian dating sites!

Saturday 23 August 2008

A Study on Bisexuality and Lesbianism in Women

According to a recent study being published by the American Psychological Association, women are more flexible when it comes to sexual labels than their male counterparts. In addition, contrary to popular believe, women considering themselves to be bisexual are capable of establishing and maintaining long term relationships with a person of one sex.

The study collected data regarding 79 different women over a ten year period. All of the women being studied considered themselves not to be heterosexual, though their labels were not necessarily the same. Rather, they either identified themselves as lesbian, bisexual, or unlabeled.

“The research provides the first empirical examination of competing assumptions about the nature of bisexuality, both as a sexual identity label and as a pattern of nonexclusive sexual attraction and behavior” said Lisa M. Diamond, Ph.D, who conducted the study. “The findings demonstrate considerable fluidity in bisexual, unlabeled, and lesbian women’s attractions, behaviors, and identities and contributes to researchers’ understanding of the complexity of sexual-minority development over the life span.”

According to the study, women considering themselves to be bisexual or unlabeled were more likely to switch their identity than lesbian women, though they tended to just switch between the bisexual and unlabeled identities. In addition, 17% of these women switched to a heterosexual label at some time during the stud, though more than half of these women had switched back to either an unlabeled or bisexual label by the time the study came to an end.

By the end of the ten year study, most of the 79 women involved in the study had formed long term relationships – which was defined as a monogamous relationship lasting for at least one year - with either a man or a woman. Interestingly, only 67% of those calling themselves heterosexual were involved in a long term relationship. 85% of those calling themselves unlabeled, on the other hand, were in a long term relationship while 70% of those identifying themselves as lesbians were.

The study also found that women tend to have a loose definition of lesbianism. In fact, 15% of those that identified themselves as lesbians had engaged in sexual activity with men within the past two years. Those calling themselves heterosexuals, on the other hand, had not had any sexual contact with a woman during the same time period.

Anonymous Contact via Web-based Email

With web-based email addresses like yahoo and gmail, it is possible to set up a separate account and just use it for contacting other women. That is what I have done. I used my handle/user name from my listing on www.lesbiandatingpersonals.com in the email address.

In fact I want to use a different name because I do not like my name. I find it somewhat snobbish and aloof and that is not me. I chatted with another woman online and asked her to suggest a name for me based on my profile and photos. Something grown-up and sensual for a sexy, blond, blue-eyed woman in her 40s. Any suggestions?

Email from an Unhappily Married Woman

I received a reply this morning through www.lesbiandatingpersonals.com from a woman who is unhappily married, dreads her husband wanting a couple of minutes of sex and finds herself longing for female touch and company. As I was also in the same situation until a few months ago, and we live about 10 minutes apart, I urged her to meet me, just for a chat because just talking might help her. If we feel an attraction we might want to kiss then meet for a physical encounter. At least meeting up could help her confusion.

I think many women go through their life with a desire for female touch, maybe just kissing and fondling and maybe full-blown sex. For whatever reason, they keep it in their mind rather than make it a reality and that is such a shame. Kissing and fondling another woman does not make you a lesbian. Women know what women like so when a woman is frustrated in her sexual relationship with a man, or lack of one, it is only natural to wonder and wish.

The ball is in her court.

Lesbian Photos

I am having a lovely Friday evening all by myself, looking at photos, clips, sites to meet others - I'll tell you more some other time.

For now, enjoy these photos:



Friday 22 August 2008

Beautiful Babes Kissing Video

YouTube has some interesting sexual videos but they are pretty tame compared to what is available elsewhere or as download sexual clips. However, this is a lovely video of two beautiful babes kissing.



Oh how I want to experience that. Where is the woman who wants to meet me?

Download Threesome Sex Clip for Just 3€

I want to tell you about the movie clip I downloaded last night.

I went to Pabo which is an online sex shop across Europe selling beautiful lingerie, sex toys and DVDs. They also have a facility to download sex clips for immediate viewing. You can choose between one scene of a movie, from 10-30 minutes, for 3€ per 24 hours or the full movie for 24 hours or download the full movie to keep. I thought one scene was enough to keep me occupied last night. Pabo offer an incredible selection of clips with every special interest you can imagine including bi, big boobs, anal, dildos, gay, gang bang, girl on her own, fetish, fisting, hard core, orgy - you name it. They are listed at random but you can find them through a category or alphabetical search.

I chose a 25 minutes threesome scene with two gorgeous girls (Jessica Lynn and Shawna Lenee), each with long blond hair, having the time of their lives with one lucky man (Mark Ashley) who had an enormous hard-on. I heard these porn stars use special creams and sprays to keep erect. The girls were on top of each other, facing each other and he was fucking one girl, then the other, then back to the first. The girls were screaming with pleasure. Then the man lay down and the girls again took turns to slide onto his rock-hard cock. While one was being entertained, the other would lick her asshole, her clit, fondle her breasts or slap her buttocks. Three people were certainly active at all times.

As well as that rock-hard cock, the girls were beautiful and had boobs I just wanted to reach out and tease. Luckily I have C-size boobs myself and very sensitive nipples so just teasing my nipples was bringing me to a high point.

The man plunged a few fingers into one girl's pussy (not quite a fist) while she rubbed her clit and brought herself off. Meanwhile the other girl was sucking and licking his cock.

He then plunged back into the waiting pussy, brought her to climax then announced, "This is it" and pulled out, squirting his cum over her buttocks while the other girl sucked him and mopped up his juice. The girls shared the juice in a passionate kiss then both licked and kissed his cock goodbye.
Wow, what a clip. 25 minutes to watch over and over during 24 hours for just 3€. If you want to view it, the film is called "Double Play 6" and here is the description from the site:

It’s time to play with some balls, and we don’t mean tennis! For this game, all you have to do is take two of the hottest babes in the business and experience pleasure like never before! These girls are absolute professionals, and although they look completely innocent, they are the hottest little bitches you have ever seen! There are two chicks for every dick here… and don’t say you’ve never dreamed about getting it yourself!
If you would like to enjoy such sex clips, just visit Pabo

The most saucy sex dvd´s - Erotic world of Pabo


Take your laptop to the bedroom and put headphones on if you don't want your kids or neighbours to hear the fun.

Fancy a hot adventure? More fun for HIM and HER – Shopping at PABO.com!


PS My boyfriend came over this afternoon not expecting sex. Well, I took him upstairs, dropped to my knees, took out his cock and starting sucking then played the sex clip I mentioned above. He virtually ripped our clothes off and we had the hottest, hardest sex we have ever had. I am still watching the clip so it was 3€ extremely well spent.

LesbianDatingPersonals.com

I Googled "find a bisexual woman" in my country and found www.lesbiandatingpersonals.com which is part of the TangoWire network of sites. It was free to join and I could immediately search profiles then send a smile to anyone I wanted to contact. However, to read full description details (not contact details) and be able to send them an email through the site, I had to upgrade. The minimum cost was $49.95 for three months membership with discounts for six or twelve months which seemed reasonable. The membership does not automatically renew.

On your own profile, you state what you are looking for, some background info on marital or relationship status, write a text if you choose and can upload up to five photos. Photos are optional but obviously others want to see what you look like and profiles with photos are listed first on the search so there is a much greater chance of being found. Married women may not search for short-term fun ie this is not a site to find a woman for a threesome with your man.
On this site, you can search for lesbians, bisexuals or both and choose whether you are looking for a long-term relationship, short term fun, friends and penpals or even just guidance. This is a great option for anyone starting out looking for a first experience with another woman. You can search by country or US State and age groups.

I searched within my European country and found over 100 women just in the 35-45 age group.

I sent a "smile" to a few lovely ladies. I already have one reply from an unhappily married woman who has never been with a woman but the sex is non-existent in her marriage and she longs for a woman's kiss and touch. I suggested we just meet to talk as I was also unhappily married with lousy sex until I was brave enough to split with him. She lives about ten minutes drive and maybe just talking will be helpful to her. She did not post her photo so I don't know what she looks like but she thinks I look "lovely". I do. I don't mind admitting it.

Hello from Bi-Babe, the Bisexual Blogger

I am an attractive and intelligent woman with a healthy sexual desire. I have enjoyed a couple of sexual encounters with women in the past but many years ago so I have decided to take positive action and find women for mutual tenderness and fun.

Don't get me wrong. I am not a lesbian. I love good sex with a man who knows what he is doing, especially how to please his woman. I am also a mother of two young boys so I am going to be discreet.

I am going to write about what I find attractive, finding women, buying lingerie, using sex toys, enjoying sex clips. I am not into fetishes, at least not at the moment, nor anything degrading, harmful or painful. The keyword is pleasure. I will provide links to what I have found and hope to help anyone else who wants maximum pleasure.

Feel free to comment and share but don't advertise for a partner. If you have a blog or site which would make a good link, let me know. I will decide whether to publish your link under "interesting sites".